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The law of attraction And The Law of Attraction works
both ways!
by
Victor Rozek
Used with permission
As far as I can tell, from experience and
observation, there are two primary ways for honest people to
achieve their aspirations: They can create them, or they can
attract them. We all understand the first method--working hard,
head down, shoulders slumped, fingers pounding the ergonomic
keyboard. Many people keep right on pounding it until their first
coronary, only to discover they still haven't lived the life they
wanted.
The second method is a bit more abstract.
Most of us know someone who, without a great deal of visible
effort, seems to glide through life, attracting the
opportunities, people, and resources they need. So why do the
rest of us have mixed success? There are several possible
answers. Perhaps we don't know how to consciously and
deliberately attract what we want. Or, perhaps, we are all
magnets attracting random outcomes, and some of us just get
lucky. Or maybe it's all nonsense. Or just maybe what we are
attracting is totally consistent with our beliefs and intentions.
If the latter is true, hard work may not be
enough to create desired results if we are simultaneously
attracting a lot of negative experiences. But how would someone
attract something in the first place? The underlying principle
isn't new, but it's one that is picking up scientific
credibility: The way we see things determines what we attract.
The way we see things is largely a product of
our beliefs, and our beliefs act as a filter through which we see
reality. The filter tends to let in data that supports our
world-view and to keep out data that does not. As an example, for
many years I believed that 'wealth could only be created by
working hard at jobs I didn't like', because that was my father's
reality. Although there was a lot of evidence to the contrary, I
dismissed it because it didn't align with my world-view. I didn't
see work as it was; I saw it as I was. And as long as I held that
belief, I remained professionally unfulfilled and unable to
attract rewarding work.
As in my case, most beliefs we have about the
world are formed before the age of eight. And although many of
our early beliefs are no longer useful, they still operate in our
subconscious, fueling unproductive behaviors and attracting the
type of people and experiences that are unfavorable to realizing
our dreams.
For me, the idea of attracting what I want
(instead of being limited to creating it) is appealing because it
seems far less exhausting and offers a greater range of
possibilities. My wife, for one, lives a lifestyle far beyond her
earning capacity, primarily by attracting an array of experiences
and opportunities that would otherwise not be available to her.
Among the things she has manifested are multiple trips to Hawaii,
various concert tickets, and a new car. None of which she paid
for. Note the underlying beliefs she holds about abundance: You
don't have to "work hard" to get what you want, and
being wealthy can take many forms besides having lots of money.
For years people have written about
synchronicity and flow states to explain how others can succeed
or manifest their desires beyond a level that seems probable.
Most of the explanations offered tended to be metaphysical,
rather than scientific. But the concept of "attractors"
has some serious underpinnings. It comes from chaos theory, in
which an attractor is an element that an entire system organizes
around. In our planetary arrangement, for example, the sun could
be thought of as an attractor around which nine planets organized
themselves into a system. Beyond theoretical physics, Rupert
Sheldrake's theory of morphogenetic fields and neurobiologist
Humberto Maturana's work on autopoesis suggest that we, too,
function as attractors. And we do it all the time. The questions
for us are, can we do it consciously and are we attracting what
we want?
I recently met two people who spent a great
deal of time studying the subject. Tim and Kris Hallbom are
co-developers of a seminar called The Wealthy Mind Money Clinic,
which is taught in this country and abroad. The purpose of the
seminar is to assist people in identifying and breaking through
limiting beliefs that prevent them from having the wealth they
want. Without diminishing the value of hard work, the Hallboms,
both trained in Neuro Linguistic Programming, also strive to
train the mind to attract its desires. In the course of
developing the seminar, they identified a number of key
attractors that create conditions that manifest wealth, which
they define as "keys to consciously bringing forth what you
want." And while they were originally identified in the
context of manifesting wealth, they work equally well whether a
person wishes to attract a job, a relationship, or any other
outcome.
There are nine key attractors, but their
scope is somewhat encyclopedic, so I have chosen the three that
have most to do with the mental aspects of manifestation.
State of Mind
Stated succinctly: What you focus on
determines what you get, and what you focus on determines what
you miss. Your attitudes, moods, and feelings are energetic
attractors and delimiters for various life experiences.
Depression and anger, for example, will severely limit what
experiences are available to you. Believe the world is a place of
few opportunities, and there will be no shortage of evidence to
support it. Believe that wealth is only for other people, and you
will find ample proof that it is impossible for you to possess
it.
Having a negative internal experience will
attract a negative external experience. Essentially, our outer
experience becomes a reflection of our inner reality. Ever notice
how, when you are agitated and in a hurry, every light seems to
turn red, and every driver ahead of you is driving like an
octogenarian. Or when you're having a bad day at work, people
seem more annoying and your boss seems more unreasonable.
If you want to change your experience,
monitor your internal process and your internal self-talk.
"Negative thoughts are self-reinforcing," say the
Hallboms. There is a structure in your brain called the reticular
activating system, which is a neurological filter that helps you
identify what is important for you to attend to. "When you
are in a negative state, you will focus on the negative; when in
a positive state, you will sort for the positive." And
unless you're attached to negative experiences, sorting for the
positive is much more likely to get you what you want.
Beliefs and Imprints
There are three basic kinds of beliefs, and
we can use the issue of money to illustrate them. There are
beliefs about cause (x causes y), as in "having money
undermines spirituality." There are beliefs about meaning
(x=y), as in "money is the root of all evil." And there
are beliefs about possibility (is it possible, and is it possible
for me), as in "I don't deserve to be rich." Limiting
beliefs create limited results. They are the planks of an
artificial ceiling that defines how high we can rise and what is
acceptable for us to have. There is a profound difference between
going through life believing that "money is hard to come
by," as opposed to believing that "money comes quickly
and easily to me."
Imprints
are early traumatic or confusing experiences from which beliefs
about life are formed. Emotions associated with imprints are
usually very powerful and are often triggered by events in the
present. Frequently, imprints create beliefs about lack of
worthiness or capability, which are classic obstacles to
achievement. The Oracle at Delphi said that the key to creating
your wants is "knowing thyself." To the degree we can
identify our limiting beliefs and transform them into empowering
beliefs, we will remove the barriers that reside within.
Intent
There is power in setting a clear intention.
Several years ago, Tim Hallbom and some of his colleagues invited
a Peruvian shaman to the Utah desert to see if it was possible to
model the extraordinary cures the man was purportedly capable of
performing. The shaman was at first reluctant, but one of the
group had been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis and was having
some difficulty, so he agreed to perform the ritual. He prepared
a fire and had the man lie down and remove his shirt. He took a
charred stick and made some symbols on the man's chest. He
sprinkled sand on him, talked to his arm for some time, then
waved a rattle and chanted.
To everyone's amazement, the man got better
(and remains so to this day). No one was sure, however, exactly
how or when the cure had taken place. So they asked. The shaman
told them, "He was cured when I set my intention; the rest
is just ceremony."
I can attest, on a more modest scale, that
indeed synchronicities occur once I set a clear intention.
Earlier this year, I determined to attend some professional
training. Within only days of getting clear about what I wanted,
I was offered an opportunity to attend two seminars valued at
$8,000 at no cost.
But regardless of what science says about the
possibility of attracting what you want, shamanic cures and free
trips to Hawaii may be more than the skeptical reader can accept.
The cynics will sort for the flaw and dismiss the notion as
impossible. To which I'll respond in the same way that the Queen
of Hearts responded to Alice when she blundered into Wonderland.
Alice chided the Queen, "One can't
believe impossible things."
To which the Queen replied. "I daresay
you haven't had much practice."
THE NLP WEATHYMIND™
EXPANDED MONEY CLINIC will be presented in Dallas by Marilou
Seavey. It is sponsored by NLP Training Concepts. To reserve your
place in the Wealthy Mind - Money Clinic pick up the phone and
call Susan at 214-351-5433 and make your reservation or get
information.
“The
Money Clinic has been one of the best investments I have made in
myself and my business. The workshop created a real shift in my
perspective about my potential and readiness for success. Without
any purposeful change in my immediate behavior, my business grew
by over 25% in the first 30 days following the workshop! I highly
recommend the Money Clinic to anyone who wants to break through a
plateau in their business." Teresa Pool, Professional Coach
The Law of Attraction
works both ways!
If your
attention is spent on thinking about bills, downsizing or
recession, what will you tend to bring into your experience… more
abundance or fear and lack?
But, if you were to change limiting, fear
based beliefs into more empowering and positive ones, you will
begin to notice more opportunities, benefits and advantages and
bring more of those into your life.
This is not Pollyanna or unrealistic
thinking; it is rooted in fundamental human psychology and from
centuries of experience of the most successful people. What we
focus on or pay attention to most expands in our experience. We notice
it more and base our choices and decisions on it.
The Money Clinic is not about how to invest
your money, it is about removing the limitations and obstacles to
creating financial freedom, beginning with the freedom from
anxiety and money worries.
The first step is to identify the hidden
attitudes and beliefs that seem so real to you that you think of
them as truths.
The next step is to replace them with more
useful ones that cause you to think, act and behave in ways that
notice, create and take advantage of opportunities to increase
wealth and financial success.
When you learn how, it is not that difficult
to dramatically change the way you think about money. It just
takes some proven NLP processes and a willingness to
realistically look at your own contribution to your financial
situation. How your thoughts, beliefs and behaviors have brought
you to where you are now in relation to money and wealth.
In just one weekend you can do more to change
a fearful or poverty mind-set into a Wealth Mind than anything
else you might have planned for the weekend of February 23, 24.
If you are using the excuse that you ‘can’t
afford’ the Money Clinic, then that is a good indication of the
actual state of your money-mind. How can you not afford to attend
the Money Clinic? What better way to spend a weekend than doing
something really important to make the changes in your life that
will make a big difference? A very small investment of time and
money that will pay you back many times, over and over again.
To reserve your place in the End Worry Clinic
January 25, pick up the phone and call 214-351-5433.
Thank
you!
So many of you have contributed to our success this year. Thank
you so much!
The Schedule for 2009
(so far)
Money
is the hot topic so there are numerous opportunities to work on
manifesting, attracting and creating more even when everyone else
is fearful!
New Class: Creating your Desires: Thinking
Prosperity or Poverty Sat, Jan. 3rd (Includes Treasure Boards and
so much more). Time: 9:30-4:30. Using the powerful techniques of
NLP to keep your thinking and focus in line with what you want.
The class applies the three phases of the laws of prosperity
using NLP. Do your treasure board! Keep focused and out of fear. Move
forward with your goals. $99 for the day; introduce me to a new
friend, $65 for both. Already a NLP practitioner or NLP master
practitioner: $55 for the entire day! A perfect set up for the
Money Clinic.
Building Powerful Relationships, Level
1: Starts Jan. 13th, every other Tues. 6-9pm.
The
power of NLP for business and personal development. Learn how to
build deep trust and rapport and change your reaction to annoying
things and people in your life. For anyone who wants to improve
or change their business and personal relationships and the
amount of money they make. For sales people, entrepreneurs, small
business owners, managers, coaches, customer service personnel,
teachers, parents, nurses, therapists, social workers. $495; $55
repeat.
Leadership Practitioner: NLP
Certification Training – Level 2 Starts Jan. 24-25, Feb. 21-22,
Mar. 21-22, April 18-19, May 16-17, June 13-14, July 18-19, Aug.
15-16
Gain
mastery of the most valuable communication skills today. Create
the future that you truly want. Learn how to use the most
powerful discoveries ever made for evolving yourself both
personally and professionally, quickly establish rapport, clarify
goals, change unwanted habits and behaviors, identify and
understand communication styles for greater flexibility,
efficiently move towards win-win relationships. Business
applications: master the intuitive communication styles central
to building world-class sales and customer service organizations,
and lasting business-to-business partnerships. Consultants can
understand how to make the most impact in the role of the change
agent. Educators can discover the learning styles key to
individual accelerated student growth and achievement. Call the
office for extensive brochure. Study groups mid-month.
New class: End Worry Clinic. Taught by
Marilou Seavey. Jan. 28th 6:30-8:30pm Stop Worrying; get happy. This is
a quick and easy change that you can teach to your friends and
family. It’s a technique absolutely necessary for accurate
outcomes. Invite your friends, coworkers, therapists, anyone who
worries outloud or silently about their retirement, business,
family, money or who works with people. Great precursor to the
Money Clinic! $115. Early registration before Jan. 15th $89.
The Wealthy Mind Money Clinic I™ taught
by Marilou Seavey Jan. 30-Feb. 1, 2009 - Time: Friday
2:30-9:30pm, Sat. 9:00-5:00; Sun. 9:00-3:30.
3 DAYS THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE. The
results people are getting are phenomenal.
Living
the abundant life means you have everything you want, money is
not an issue, and you live free of fear that you won’t have
enough.
Do you have a belief that money is hard to
make and life is a struggle? Are you afraid of doing better than
your parents did? Is your experience with money that there is
never enough? Or is money easy to make, but hard to hold on to?
Do you make a lot a lot money but are poor in the quality of your
relationships or some other area of your life? $495. New to the
Money Clinic: Bring a friend: $45 off for both of you. Repeating
the Money Clinic: $200, bring a new (to us) friend, $100; bring
two new friends: free.
NLP Master
Certification: Mastery - Level 3 Starts May
30-June 1, June 27-28, July 25-26, Aug. 22-23, Sept. 19-20, Oct.
17-18, Nov. 11-12, Dec. 12-13. The NLP Master Practitioner training
will speed your attainment of unconscious competence in NLP. Come
and learn advanced NLP applications for use in both professional
and personal contexts. Learn the powerful language skills of the
most effective communicators. Change unwanted and limiting
beliefs. One student recently said that the first weekend was
worth the price of all her NLP education
Silva 2000, Taught by
Marilou Seavey (Essential Mind Power Training) To be scheduled
It’s back by popular demand. The world's
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